Looking for inspiration for dirty talk or sexting?
These sensual lines from literary erotica can help you express desire with confidence and creativity. Let Carly Pifer, founder of Read Aurore, show you some examples.
Carly is the founder of AURORE, a space for literary erotica based on our own best experiences. She holds erotic writing workshops to guide people through the healing power of verbalizing their desires and commemorating the best sex of their lives. AURORE takes submissions and gives all voices a platform to express pleasure.
Lots of people love the idea of dirty talk or sexting, but when the moment actually arrives, it’s easy to freeze up. Multitasking is hard! Trying to stay present in your body while also coming up with something clever, sexy, or seductive to say can feel like a lot of pressure. And let’s be honest, being turned on doesn’t exactly send blood and brilliant thoughts rushing to our brains (though it does send blood to other parts of the body).
The good news is that you don’t have to invent everything from scratch. Sometimes the easiest way to find your voice is to borrow a little inspiration. Erotic literature has long been a playground for sensual language and full of vivid descriptions, longing, anticipation, and desire that can spark ideas for your own intimate conversations.
If you’re looking for a little help getting started, these spicy lines from erotic stories can give you the words when your mind goes blank. Use them as inspiration, adapt them to your own style, or send them exactly as written. Remember, the goal isn’t perfection, it’s playfulness, curiosity, and connection.
Want to read erotica with your partner instead? Here’s our guide for how (and why) to do it.
Dirty Talk Idea #1: Tell them what you want to do to to them (or for them)
Examples:
“I'll let my hand delicately graze the side of your ribcage while I mark you with wet, deep kisses as I get lower and lower until, finally, I take hold of your cock and pause to look up at you before I let you enter my mouth. I'll get your head so wet, then deep dive, sloppily taking your entire length inside me. I'll open up my throat until it can go no further and suck you in long, deep strokes, making sure to get every last inch of you inside me.” - From “Deepthroat”
“I'm thinking of meeting you somewhere and stripping slowly for you, piece by piece, letting you look but not touch. See how long I can torture you like that, just letting you put a finger in me or your tongue on my nipple. Until you throw me down and fuck me. I want you to make me try to fight you a little.”- From “Sexting With The Real Estate Agent”
Dirty Talk Idea #2: Give them directions to follow
Examples:
“Run your knuckles up my thighs and now let your fingers graze my pussy. Grace my pussy with their presence. No penetration, just the flick of a finger on the lips, like you’re kissing her with your fingers, lightly, butterfly kisses. When I start to squirm you’re getting closer. Use your palm to cup my whole pussy, and release by trailing a finger all along my crack. At this point, come up to kiss my neck again and tell me to flip over.” - From “How To Get Me Wet”
“You are to be a good girl and not touch yourself no matter how horny you get, you understand? And next time we see each other, you will dress in black stockings and fresh black panties — oh and high heels — nothing else but a coat thrown over it.” - From “Cam Queen”
Dirty Talk Idea #3: Tell them how much you yearn for them
Examples:
"I'm crazy about you. I think about you everyday. I miss you when we're not together, I wish I could be with you, I admire you, I respect you, I feel compelled by my body and by source energy to pursue you. I feel it was fate to meet you. I'm scared of you. Still I want you. I want to find a way to make room for my feelings for you. These feelings overwhelm me, they make me nervous. But they won't go away. All I do is crave you, I want you inside me so bad. I want to make part of you part of me." - From “Limerence is Bliss”
"’Tell me what you missed?’ I say, running my fingers through his dark soft curls and pouting at him before I tip his chin up and place my lips over his pulse point. My hand cups the back of his head as I glide my cheek against it, it feels absolutely delicious. ‘Your soft skin, your smell, your voice…’ I blush, ‘Hmmm?’ I moan as my lips find his collar bone under his milky brown skin. ‘I missed all of you,’ he says as I bring my lips to his, feeling his erection already growing beneath me. ‘No one else is ever as good as you,’ he sighs and I smile. - From “Worship”
Need more inspo? There’s more where those came from at ReadAurore.com.
Reading erotic stories can help you…
🖤Better verbalize your desires
🖤Discover hidden wants/kinks/fantasies
🖤Learn new moves and techniques
🖤Ignite your imagination
🖤Become a better lover!
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